Have you ever wondered why it is traditional to give engaged couples so many presents? Why do they need 12 of those very expensive goblets? Is registering for a drill or a waffle maker really necessary? I can remember registering for my wedding and feeling so horribly guilty when selecting my china set. In the end, I opted for an every day set of dishes instead. I didn’t want my friends and my parents friends to have to pay for those dishes. “I can buy them later if I want them,” is what I thought to myself at the time. …